Empowering Love Advice - You Love the Things You Serve
The best love advice I have ever received dealt with service. Take a moment and reflect upon those things that mean the most to you. Think about those things you love and have special meaning to you. They can be a person, a pet, or something that you own. What is it that has allowed you to grow to love those things? First, how much time do you spend, or have you spent with said thing in the past? Chances are, if it is a thing, it is something that you worked hard to obtain, or that you have spent a great deal of time using. It may be something that has brought you a great deal of pleasure over time. You love your pets because you spend time with them. You love them unconditionally and they love you in return. They make you feel good to be around them. In addition, you take time and feed your pets. You clean up after them. You bathe them. In other words, you serve them. You do things for them. Relationships with people are no different. You love the people you love because some where in the past you served them and demonstrated your love for them. You love the things you serve. If you want to love your spouse, then serve them. Do something nice every day without being asked. Tell them you love them. Plan a date night with them. Go back to someplace that has special meaning to both of you and reminisce about the wonderful time the two you had together. Remember, you love the things you serve. You love the things you think about. You love the things that you invest time in with no expectation of receiving anything in return. So, invest time into your spouse. Serve them. Love them. Add value to them. As you do, your love for them will grow. They will love you in return. Have A Great Story About This Topic?Do you have a great story or thoughts about this? Share it! What Other Visitors Have SaidClick below to see contributions from other visitors to this page...
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